There
are two Letters on this webpage that are dedicated to Vietnam Veterans.
International
War Veterans' Poetry Archives "Dear Vietnam Veteran" Letter below.
From: "john seletyn" <jsmusic48@yahoo.com>
SEMPER FI...
Art
Raul (Art) Sifuentes
Executive Director
Marine Corps Aviation
Association
715 Broadway Street
PO Box 296
Quantico,VA 22134
(703)630-1903/1-800-280-3001
Mobile (703)963-6895
rasifuentes@flymcaa.org
www.flymcaa.org
OPEN LETTER TO VIETNAM VETERANS
Dear Hero,
I was in my twenties during the Vietnam
era. I was a single mother and, I'm sad to say, I was probably one of the most self-centered people on the planet. To be perfectly
honest. I didn't care one way or the other about the war. All I cared about was me-how I looked, what I wore, and where I
was going. I worked and I played. I was never politically involved in anything, but I allowed my opinions to be formed by
the media. It happened without my ever being aware. I listened to the protest songs and I watched the six o'clock news and
I listened to all the people who were talking. After awhile, I began to repeat their words and, if you were to ask me, I'd
have told you I was against the war. It was very popular. Everyone was doing it, and we never saw what it was doing to our
men. All we were shown was what they were doing to the people of Vietnam .
My brother joined the Navy and then he was
sent to Vietnam . When he came home, I repeated the words to him. It surprised me at how angry he became. I hurt him very
deeply and there were years of separation-not only of miles, but also of character. I didn't understand.
In fact, I
didn't understand anything until one day I opened my newspaper and saw the anguished face of a Vietnam veteran. The picture
was taken at the opening of the Vietnam Veterans Memorial in Washington , D.C. His countenance revealed the terrible burden
of his soul. As I looked at his picture and his tears, I finally understood a tiny portion of what you had given for us and
what we had done to you. I understood that I had been manipulated, but I also knew that I had failed to think for myself.
It was like waking up out of a nightmare, except that the nightmare was real. I didn't know what to do.
One day about
three years ago, I went to a member of the church I attended at that time, because he had served in Vietnam . I asked him
if he had been in Vietnam , and he got a look on his face and said, "Yes." Then, I took his hand, looked him square in the
face, and said, "Thank you for going." His jaw dropped, he got an amazed look on his face, and then he said, "No one has ever
said that to me." He hugged me and I could see that he was about to get tears in his eyes. It gave me an idea, because there
is much more that needs to be said. How do we put into words all the regret of so many years? I don't know, but when I have
an opportunity, I take it so here goes.
Have you been to Vietnam ? If so, I have something I want to say to you-Thank
you for going! Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Please forgive me for my insensitivity. I don't know how I could have
been so blind, but I was. When I woke up, you were wounded and the damage was done, and I don't know how to fix it. I will
never stop regretting my actions, and I will never let it happen again.
Please understand that I am speaking for the
general public also. We know we blew it and we don't know how to make it up to you. We wish we had been there for you when
you came home from Vietnam because you were a hero and you deserved better. Inside of you there is a pain that will never
completely go away and you know what? It's inside of us, too; because when we let you down, we hurt ourselves, too. We all
know it and we suffer guilt and we don't know what to do so we cheer for our troops and write letters to "any soldier" and
we hang out the yellow ribbons and fly the flag and we love America. We love you too, even if it doesn't feel like it to you.
I know in my heart that, when we cheer wildly for our troops, part of the reason is trying to make up for Vietnam. And while
it may work for us, it does nothing for you.
We failed you. You didn't fail us, but we failed you and we lost our only
chance to be grateful to you at the time when you needed and deserved it. We have disgraced ourselves and brought shame to
our country. We did it and we need your forgiveness. Please say you will forgive us and please take your rightful place as
heroes of our country. We have learned a terribly painful lesson at your expense and we don't know how to fix it.
From
the heart,
Julie Weaver
237 East Gatewood Circle
Burleson, Texas 76028-8948
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If the "Dear Vietnam Veteran" Letter and picture backdrop does not appear just below this, please link to the above.
You can read another copy at: http://www.americans-working-together.com/american_veterans/id120.html
http://www.iwvpa.net/cunninghamj/
DEAR VIETNAM VETERAN
I know I should have written much sooner.
I can't say why I did not. Out of fear of admitting to myself
you were there fighting a war. Or maybe ashamed; ashamed that I never accepted the things you felt you had to do.
Whatever it is, I know it must hurt.
Believe me when I say it hurts me more. I have the burden of
your hurt plus that of my own; the pain of not being able to show my true feeling toward you.
I am not writing this for the months you served in Vietnam, but
for the many years, you were left alone with only your brother Veterans. You served proudly and it went unmentioned.
For a long time, I've wanted to express the words. The words
an honorable Veteran needs to hear.
For a long time, I've wanted to hold you during your times of
pain.
